Winter Maintenance

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>>>>>>>>>>Now let's talk >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Are you ready for Christmas? Do you have something special planned for your significant other, your boo for Christmas? Well, what about after? Sometimes we put a lot of planning in big occassions but it is the little things that we do for our significant others that keep the "fire" in the relationship.

Well, I have 2 words that will help you remind your boo who is on his team...................WINTER MAINTENANCE! Ladies, here is a clue. Men learn what women like by LISTENING to other men whose female companion told him what she wanted....... You don't see a man picking up a Essence magazine to read an article about "How to turn her on".....

So in order for your boo to know what you want and to keep the winter warm then:

(1) Stop with the silent treatment. Tell him what you like and where you want the relationship to go (no matter how long you have been together). Now for those of you still in the early part of your interaction (relationship)..... yes, it requires a degree of self-esteem and confidence, but would you want to be in a relationship that leaves you constantly wondering where you stand? Uncertainty leads to insecurities. It's the time of Michelle Obama! It's sexy to be strong. So, what's your M.O?
(2) Stop playing games. If you are ready for a sexual relationship, or take the next step in your sexual relationship, then make your move! What's the 1st 5? When is it too early to give/receive head? Is it ever too early? I kid, I kid. But really, most women know within the first five minutes if the man that just met has ANY chance of getting her most intimate treasure! Ladies, please pay attention: If you do not want that man, then be clear! Help a sista out, don't make it harder for the next chick!
(3) Now it is also easy for woman to remember the mani, pedi, wax, pluck, etc., but often neglect the presentation. This is especially for those again new in your relationship, I don't know if any man that wants to see that the last man saw.Some things can't be helped, duh! Either of you are virgins...BUT a sexy new panty drawer is an extra incentive to make any sex life better! Guys are visual. Xbox, anyone?!? Girls want to look sexy soooooo find some styles that make your body look great and turns him on! Sexy is a state of mind! Guys find confidence sexy. Don't believe me, ask your dude or pick up the next King or Maxim.
(4) Finally, KNOW YOUR WORTH! .....and his. Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with,but don't be afraid to build trust. Yeah, how do you show your significant other (S.O) you appreciate them? Do you send a sexy text message, email? However you do it, just do it. Because if you don't know your S.O's worth, you best believe someone else may.

Sex, relationships & the love in between.....

Neek, the Love Coach

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