Serena Williams shows that at the end of the day.. We are only human

I think one of my biggest concerns is that sometimes "everyday working people" live their lives unhealthily around "celebrities" and their almost daily lives/activies. Does it ever occur to others that you can be so caught up in how celebrities live their lives that you actually can forget how to live your own?



However, there are exceptions where celebrities are able to take their lives & relationships, their hardships and their triumphants and put them in perspectives for others to learn from. Showing regardless of economic or social success, at the end of the day, we all benefit from alittle couchtime & we are only human.



People magazine interviews Serena Williams about her upcoming memoir in which she highlights her humanity..............see article below.







Serena Williams, Beautifully Human

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The 2nd part of her sexy series, Sex with the Lights On Vol. II. Neek, the Love Coach discusses how to overcome your inhibitions and become his fantasy! Featuring Special Guest, the Diva of Erotic Instruction, Pleazure, this show will teach you how to overcome insecurities about your body or even your sexual performance that can sometimes lead you to be really stiff or uncomfortable in bed. Confidence is a sexy attitude! This series explores how to gain that sexy attitude. Neek, the Love Coach continues to deliver relationship advice that is "Straight with NO Chaser"!

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What's up, world!
Neek, the Love Coach proudly introduces CouchSessions!
Neek, the Love Coach brings CouchTime to you!

Neek, the Love Coach is a passionate, expert speaker that brings to your organization, school, group or event an informative and entertaining presentations on Sex, Relationships & the Love in Between..

Neek, the Love Coach will be speaking at an event sponsored by ZETA PHI BETA SORORITY, INC. at Delaware State University on Tuesday, September 15, 2009 at 7:20pm.


Topic: Couchsession 101: 5 Stages of an Interaction
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The Event is FREE & Open to the Public!

I dont just talk it ....I LIVE it......

For years I have worked to overcome an unhealthy sense of self....see my video presentation, Love Doesn't Hurt .The journey in my healing process has not been an easy one....but it is one filled with "teachable moments".... Ever wore a cast or know someone that has....it starts to itch and become very uncomfortable when it begins to heal, doesn't it?!? Welllllll, the healing process of someone's mental, physical and spiritual self is noooooo different....

As I began to heal mentally and spiritually, it knew it was time to heal physically. Do you know your family's medical history? I do. And as much as I love them, I knew that if I could help it, I did not want diabetes, high blood pressure, you know the rest...... So some habits I had to change......something about turning 30 that can enlighten a person's way of thinking...something about turning 35 that just makes a person wake up and pay attention....no more B*LLSH*TING!

One of my biggest goal was to be 35 & FLY......I already had decent eating habits, I became a vegetarian in Winter '02, but don't trip- vegetarians can have unhealthy eating habits....I researched, study nutritional counseling, the works! I make sure I get the nutritional value in what I eat........But I was not active enough......

With some motivation (LOL), I started hitting the gym last year........so long story shorten......below ..........I introduce to you.......Neek, the Love Coach

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Announcing.....................The Love in Between....

I am excited to announce that I am launching a new bi-weekly talk show, The Love in Between...., on blogtalkradio.com........I know a lot of you wanted a show that is more R&B themed while keeping the appeal of being "Straight with No Chaser" and more importantly, INTERACTIVE!

That's right! You can call in, and give me your two cents....... and listen to one hour of the entertaining, funny mess I will be into.......

Talking about those things that turn you on and.....off!


Here is what I have in store for U:

• What's up, world!-Let's talk about what's happening in our world

• The Jewerly Box-Call in and talk to Neek, the Love Coach about your relationship dilemmas. Listen to Neek dropping jewels (advice) on Sex, Relationships, and the Love in Between....

• Lock Down Love-Call in to shout out those that you haven't forgotten. They are not the only ones doing time....
  

• What Your man wished U knew- Ladies, you are going to love "The Voice" I have for you. His sexy baritone will keep you coming back....

• That's NOT cute- This is the segment that I am going after all the mess I see in dating and relationships.......cuz some sh*t is just NOT cute

And of course, special guests and skits too funny to miss!

The Love in Between....is about the love of self, others & life!

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Premieres Wednesday, August 19,2009 at 11pm Eastern Standard Time.

Boo-loving on a Budget

I usually tell people money pays the bills but shouldn't tell you the value of your relationship. It's a recession and and dealing with those unplanned interruptions that can somehow mess up the day for couples and cause additional drama in the intimacy department...


I wanted to go a little further with what has been talked about, sung about, rapped about in songs for everything materialistic we strive for, it begins with that.....that paper, dough, guap...aka money...Getting into a relationship, everybody has their list. You know, the list of what they want in a spouse, mate, partner, lover, etc. and money is in the top 2 or top 3 for most people....Idealistic or realistic, everybody wants somebody with dough or better yet, financial stability, especially in these hard economic times.

So what happens, when the money dries up? Most men would agree that from a woman, if his money dries up then so does her sex. Ladies, especially, although men are not excluded....you are WRONG for placing monetarily value on your relationship! I read an article earlier this year on how a dude has to spend that money to make this chick (the author) happy. I say that is why she is more likely not in a relationship. If you think about it, for a person to place an value on their relationship on how much money is coming in is probably a part of the reason the world is an a global recession. People have bankrupt their relationships, self worth and dignity for that dollar. They have place unrealistic expectations on their significant other to "take care" of them and not willing to do their part. And giving "head" or as Ricky Ross and Trina so tastefully put it "getting face" (i.e. oral sex) is NOT doing your part! If you think that is doing your part, email me asap, I have a personal PSA for you.

For those of you that are working in your relationship and seeking to make it in these tough times, don't be discourage. You can Boo-love on a budget! For those of you who don't know, to "boo-love" is to show affection to your significant other. Here are some of my tips to help you spend quality time together without spending alot of money:

• Use the high school budget. Remember when you were saving to go to a dance, Homecoming, etc. You were trying to "get fly", "be sharp"...in other words - look damn good, but you knew your money had to stretch. Well, apply the same thinking to your situation now....
  

• Gas is expensive; learn to take walks, or even the bus.
  
• Shop at a discount store. I know there is a Dollar Store, Dollar Tree, Five Below in your area.......Giving your honey the spa treatment does not mean you have to spend spa money. Scent bath salts, candles and some great secented and sometimes hypoallergenic lotion.....Give her a bath and massage her and plan a late night with a little help from a 5 hour energy (no crash) and see how she shows you her appreciation.
  
• Movie Night? Blockbuster killing you with late fees.....then hit up (that means "shop at") a Red Box.......A dollar to rent a movie...can't beat that price! Period.
  
• Give each other your undivided attention for 1 hour. it's free and it's priceless. You obviously have an computer. Go to Imeem. Listen to music that you listened to when you were growing up. Share your stories lovingly. You may discover more about your partner than you already know!
• Go Bowling!
• Go Skating!
• Go to a pool hall....go shoot some pool. Play chess. Or learn a new game. Cards, anyone?!? Spades, Poker, UNO.....what eva you like......
• Ohhh....how can I forget to mention......If you like gaming (i.e. XBox 360, PS3, PC), then let your boo, play, teach them how.....spend a little quality time and have a ball!!
  
• Be Creative! These are some suggestions listed. I am sure there are other ways you can boo-love on a budget.
• Be spontaneous! Definitely know what you can spend/plan your spending....but don't be afraid to do something unplanned......ever just stay up late, just to be with each other...
  
• Be lovingly honest. Don't be scare to talk about how you see your financial future as an individual and as a couple/family/team/unit. Talk about what you can do to reach your goals.Don't delay, develop a plan and put that plan into action. Stop waiting for someone's permission to be financially stable.

Honestly, most couple's therapists and financial advisers recommend couples understanding each other's financial commitments before committing legally (i.e marriage). It is hard to maintain relationships if you can not understand each other's spending or saving habits. And alot of divorces do occur because couples can not agree financially on the goals that they want set and accomplish. It is trusting each other to provide for the stability of your marriage, family and future. This is beyond the emotion of love. This is the act of being loving.

It's challenging, but you can .....Boo-love on a budget.


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