Love's Math

2 Bodies
+
1 Heart
+
1 Mindset
+
2 be together
+
4 Ever
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2 Listen & Talk
x
2 Each other
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Be there 4 each other then
You can LOVE 1 another

Shop and Create Your Ultimate Fantasy

Many clients that I have coached/counseled tell me that they are scared to open up, to explore sexually with their significant other and they are afraid of rejection or "putting myself out there".

If you are ready for a sexual relationship, or take the next step in your sexual relationship, then make your move!

Stop with the silent treatment.

Tell your significant other what you like and where you want the relationship to go (no matter how long you have been together).

At Orgasmic Heights.net you can shop discreetly to pamper your passions or customize your intimates!

The Art of Fellatio

The topic comes up often, in our bedrooms, on our girl's or guy's nights out, the Art of Fellatio. After we discuss how important it is or isn't in a relationship, then the talk goes to...What is giving good "head" or "blowjob" or "BJ"? Well, below I have given some tips on how to have some GREAT fellatio moments.

Let's see.

1. A man's enjoyment/desire for you increases when he knows that his woman enjoys giving him head (oral sex). The benefits of you showing your pleasure in pleasing him can include, but not limited to, your man getting as hard as you have ever felt him and that in turns increases his size (that is a turn on for most women), sexual position or relationship spontaneity, increase intensity of the overall sexual experience- or just simply...better sex.

2. Shop together! Go to stores that sell sex products and toys to shop! If you are too shy for that, then shop on the internet! Take the stress out of trying to figure out what turns your man on, ask and he will tell you.

3. Make the entire experience sensuous, not just sexual.....from having him pick out your lingerie, taking showers and don't forget to dry each other off, and lotion each other up! Remember to make eye contact with him. Have fun in making every touch count! If you feel, bold...talk dirty...tell him what you want to do to him.

Technique is very important. You don't have to be a pro, but remember these tips and you will be on your way:

1. No teeth, use your lips to protect him for accidental biting or scraping. You can always open your mouth wider if you have to.
2. Wetter is better! Drinking water just before helps maintain or even increase the moisture in your mouth. You can also use those lubes that you bought from the sex store (wink).This makes it easier to keep a pace without hurting him. This is not the time to figure out if he respects/loves you or not. If you have those doubts, then you should not be giving him head, period.
3. You set the pace! Fast, slow, switch it up! Surprise him and change the tempo!
4.My favorite........TALK DIRTY.
5. Finally,don't be scared, he wants you. Show him how much you want him, too.
6. Read all of this and you are still unsure, watch a movie....with him!

Now that you got all of that, then of course, the next thing you need to talk about is " to spit or to swallow?"

Sex, relationships and the love in between.........

Neek, the Love Coach
Article copyright 2009. Neek, the Love Coach. All rights reserved.

From Sexy to Sexellent!

Neek, the Love Coach continues to deliver relationship advice that is "Straight with NO Chaser"! Call in with your questions... .....on the Love in Between.... This show is the last part of the Sex with the Lights On series discussing how to take your sex game up a notch..Keep that FIRE in your Relationship..Go from sexy to sexellent!

With Special Guests, Former Power 99 on - air personalities and still popular Philly entertainers, and one of the sexiest man and wife team of HipHop, Sol & Lady T of Conroller Entertainment!

Ladies, grab your man! Fellas, boo-love on your lady! Let's talk about who does it better! You don't want to miss the Erotica inside.

Sometimes all it takes is a pair of shoes......

If you listened to my shows or read any of my articles, I always stress the importance of presentation! Any man will tell you that sometimes all it takes is a great pair of sexy shoes....No, nothing that look like it hurts, but the "sex me now shoes". So ladies when you are planning the special night of seduction, don't forget the shoes!




Neek, the Love Coach
Sex, Relationships and the Love in Between.....
2009.Neek, the Love Coach. all rights reserved.

Women, what are our options?

Family planning is very important to you as an individual and as a couple. Having children is an awesome responsibility! So if you chose to have sex, have you thought about what other birth control options you have? Whether you have none or more than 1, do you what's out there? Even when talking to your doctor, he or she can not be solely responsible for you knowing all that is available. So to help you start your search I have linked an informative birth control comparison chart developed by Cedar River Clinics.

Clink here for more information:

Birth Control Comparsion Chart

Reaching Orgasmic Heights-Shop and Create Your Ultimate Fantasy

As you probably notice, I have posted several store banners on my website and blog. I understand that people want to create that special memory for their significant other but time, opportunity or even a little embarrassment can prevent them from doing so. If you have heard either of my shows, then you know I am a great advocate of couples exploring each other and discovering new erotic ways to increase the intimacy in their relationship.

Now, I am making it easier for you to shop together in the privacy of your home! Make it another opportunity for you to Communicate, Compromise and Cultivate your relationship! Don't forget have fun with it.

Play coin toss! Tails- he picks....Heads- you do.....lol

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Respect Yourself...

Ever go to the drug store and go to the aisle, right in front of the pharmacist's window or down the aisle from the vitamins, what's normally there? Can you remember? Here's another hint. If you just happen to notice that you are not the only one in the aisle, you will discreetly walk away like what you were looking for was not in that aisle. Do you know what I am talking about now?


Well, it's condoms and it's time to stop walking away. You have to be proud that you took the stance to have responsible, protected sex. We set examples for others just by the choices we make. More importantly, you make a stance to have a choice about having a healthier you.

Still, unsure....well even the condoms makers are trying to make it easier for you. Go to your local store to find out how.


Neek, the Love Coach
Sex, Relationships & Love in Between.

2009. all rights reserved. Neek, the Love Coach

About time.....

Check out the preview, Happily Ever After: A Positive Look at Black Marriages, from Lamar Tyler of BlackandMarriedwithKids.com.

What Black Men Really Think......

Check out a true sense of realism for the DYNAMIC poet, Taalam Acey! This is the business! Big Up!