Great SuperBowl = Great Valentine's Day

In the LeBron article posted earlier, I asked the question, how would you, ladies, show your appreciation to that man that is the father/father figure in your child's life? Then that had me thinking about Valentine's Day...then... I cringed....let's face it, Valentine's Day is a woman's holiday.

There, I said it! When you think of Valentine's Day, you think of lots of jewerly commericals, more ski injuries reported in the news, and......how men dread the before, during, and after moods you have about that day. Let me expand.

Before, during and after moods are just that. They are your moods before the Valentine's Day, during (on the day of ) Valentine's Day, and ( I know you get the picture by now) after that damn day is over with.

So, how do you show your significant other that you care in a way that is exclusively for them the way Valentine's Days is normally exclusive for you?!? Because we know men don't traditionally enjoy Valentine's Day as much as women.

I am going to let you in on a secret that a woman in happy, long term relationship would know. In my best whispering voice, " did you know men go by a sporting calendar and women follow a "shopping", aka, holiday calendar?" Not all men follow sports, but every man that follows a sport know his sports calendar. For example, a NASCAR fan knows the tour schedule, an outdoorsman knows his seasons, a college football fan knows the bowls, etc. And women, we know holidays. Christmas, New Year's, Valentine's Day, every Mother, Father and Grandparent' Day that is advertised, beginning of summer and end of summer (oh, we can that Memorial and Labor Day)....and every birthday, and anniversary [how many of those do you have].

In between those events, ladies are the beloved sporting events/games that you are trying to tear your significant other from. Here is a suggestion: If you want a great Valentine's Day, then give him a GREAT Supebowl Day! Whether he choses to hang with the fellas, or with the family, show your appreciation to your significant other by allowing him to endulge in his sports fantasy. If he doesn't have sports interest, then this is a good time to find out what he likes and how he likes to share his interest. You never know, you just may find out that you both have newly discovered common interest and sharing common interest is very important in any loving, long term relationship.

Dont' be scared....be creative......seduce him with his favorite team......your own jersey of his favorite team (I would advise against using his jersey), a very sexy, complimentary fitting undies and your choice (heels or no heels)...... Remember pay attention to detail...hair (no, you should have to spend a fortune), clean nails. lotioned/moisturized skin..... Put the same care in to showing your appreciation to your boo like you want him to do for you.

So, ladies, let's start with NFL calendar. Can anyone say Super Bowl 2009?

Don't know where to look for his favorite sports team? Then google it or go to ESPN.com for starters.

Sex, relationships & the love in between.....

Neek, The Love Coach

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